Monday, December 14, 2015

Free Reading!!!! How to read all the books you want!

This summer, my 19 year sister told me she created a reading challenge on the app/website Goodreads https://www.goodreads.com/.  

She chose to read 19 books since she was 19 and encouraged me to read 40 books since I would be 40 a few months from then.

It seemed like a daunting challenge so I had the nerve to plead to read 39 books.  I figured I would be 39 for most of the year since I had an October birthday.  She told me that I must read 40 books!  With a full time job and a household that included a husband, 2 kids, and my teenage sister,  Would it even be possible?

Alas, I agreed to do the challenge.  I started it in July after having read only 6 books at the time.  I needed books and I needed them fast.  I had books at home and on my kindle that hadn't read yet.  I also perused the New York City and Brooklyn public libraries.  There were also tons of books at second hand stores for about $1-$2.  

But in the end, I did most of my reading on my iphone 6 plus.  I spend a lot of my time on the NY city trains where I do the majority of my reading.  So here is how I attain my wonderful reading material for free!!


Amazon has a load of free books down-loadable on kindle.  The books that are typically available are from lesser known writers but provide a quick, light read.  I have been reading them lately for quick holiday books.  I try to choose books with high ratings.  After you get the books from Amazon, they must be read on your kindle or kindle app.

Amazon prime members get a greater selection of free books with better known authors.

My kwanzaa book The Talking Kinara is currently available for free on Amazon prime.

Pro:  Free books, Quick reads.
Con: Lesser known writers, limited to kindle users



This is a down-loadable app available on Google Play and Apple.  Within the app you sign in with your library card and 4 digit pin. Once you are in the system you have access to tons of books.  3M has books from NY Times best sellers.   Once you get the book it is available to read in the app.

Pro: NY Times best sellers, book available in app (one stop shop), 21 days to borrow the book
Con: The selection is slightly limited, well-known books may have long wait times.


This is my FAVORITE discovery!  Overdrive is a website and down-loadable app.

Overdrive has many of the latest books from high profile authors and it even has audio-books!

I recently finish Career of Evil, by Robert Gilbrath (J.K. Rowling) with the book accompanied by the audio book, both from Overdrive.

For overdrive you have to create an account and then add which library card you want to use to find books.  I included both by NY and Brooklyn public library cards.

When I chose the books I want, I then download them onto my kindle app to read.  You can not read directly from the app.

When I chose an audio book, I download it but if the file is too big you could listen to it in the web browser.

Pro:  Audio books, Top selling authors, many available titles
Con: can borrow for only 14 days, must use other apps to read material



Bonus:
Youtube has tons of available audio-books, mainly classics but some contemporary books are available.

They have classic books and audio books available.




I was able to complete the 40 book challenge by November since I had nonstop books available that I wanted to read.  I put books on hold that were not available and as I completed a book, there was always a new one available. 

Also, intermittently using audio books allowed me to "read" while doing other things.

I loved the challenge and as of today, December 14, 2015, I have read 54 books!


I loved most of the books I've read and have learned so many things on so many levels.  
My top 5 books from this year were:


The Giver (The Giver, #1)

The Giver by Lois Lowry is about a boy who lives in a seemingly ideal community but learns more about his community.


Everything I Never Told You, by Celeste Ng was both beautiful and haunting. A story of loss.



Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates.  A look into the complex life of being an American male of African-American ancestry.


Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was a look into being "Black" from an outside "Black" community.  It was also a love story.


You by Caroline Kepnes was a scary and creepy page turner.  When the guy of your dreams becomes a nightmare.



Here is a link to my complete list.


Monday, November 30, 2015

4 Comp Christmas shows and It's not even December

Sometime, mid November, my son said, "What's up with you momma, it's almost Thanksgiving and we haven't done any Christmas things yet."

So apparently I am one of "those" people. After Halloween; Christmas!!!

I had been playing Holiday music since October but I did realize that I hadn't even bought my Christmas Spectacular tickets which I have bought as early as August. 

So I immediately started searching my number one website for show tickets; clubfreetime.com. And then my second favorite, goldstar.com. 

On http://www.clubfreetime.com/new-york-city-nyc/free-discount-complimentary-tickets-theater-concerts-shows-dance you pay an annual fee of $20 and you can get complimentary tickets to various shows for a fee of $4.50 per ticket.

On https://www.goldstar.com/new-york, there are discount tickets to Broadway shows, events, and off-Broadway shows.  There are some complimentary tickets with a $7.50 per ticket service charge.

On Monday, November 23rd, we attended our first free holiday show with tickets from club free time.

5th Annual Christmas in New York with Sandi Patty, Veritas, Regi Stone, and the American Festival Choir



Ok, so I didn't know any of the acts but I like Christmas music and it was at Carnegie Hall, which surprisingly I've never been too. 

I was a little one edge because of the seats, way up in the balcony. I'm not a friend of height but we made it to our seats and watched tons of frightened people creep to their seats before the shows.

 

The actual show was ok. Mostly because along with Christmas Carols there were also very religious themed Christmas songs. I tend to like my Christmas themed even more secular. We can debate this at another time. 

Some of the vocalist were very talented and it was a nice kick off to the holiday season.  I attended this show with my two children and my husband.  

I give it: ❄️❄️ out 5 snowflakes. 



The following day, Tuesday, November 24th I finally purchased my Christmas spectacular tickets with the 2 for 1 coupon code offered by McDonalds. 

We also went to see Santasia: A Holiday Comedy. These tickets were also comp tickets from clubfreetime.com. 



It was located in a small theater at 308 West 46th Street. We went there previously for a Christmas show that was just ok. 

Upon entering, all adults were given free wine and I knew this was going to be a good night. 

The night started well enough. I attended with my 19 year old sister, 13 year old son and 10 year old daughter. The show had video clips, skits and personal commentary. It started off wholesome and then it turned. There were f bombs and a somewhat strip show. I was entertained but uncomfortable because of my daughter. 

My sister commented that the adults laughed more than the children and she felt it was because of the wine.... 

Averaging in the kids opinions, I give it: ❄️❄️❄️

On the Saturday after Thanksgiving, November 28th, I took my ten year old daughter to Fancy Nancy Spendiferous Christmas. The tickets were once again purchased from clubfreetime.com.

The show stated that it was best suited for kids 2-7 but we both really liked it. I don't know what that says about us....

It had a sweet story line. The 5 cast mates all had nice voices and the pace was quick enough to keep all of the preschool theater goers quietly entertained. 



This production gets: ❄️❄️❄️❄️


Our final pre-December Christmas show sent us back to Carnegie Hall. These were the only comp tickets that I purchased from Goldstar for these series of shows. 

We attended on November 29th. 

First we went to Macy's. 

With myself and my son and daughter and 19 year old sister,  we enjoyed the Charlie Brown windows and then went to see "Special Santa". If you don't know, "Special Santa" is African-American...

Upon leaving "Special Santa" my son said that it all got a little emotional. Not only did Santa tell us that he loved us but he also told us we were perfect as we were. ❤️❤️

After that we listened to Messiah...Refreshed. 


This was actually good. The kids felt it was an improvement from our other Carnegie Hall experience. 

❄️❄️❄️



Wednesday, November 25, 2015

Wedding 101

I've only blogged once this year so far. I can't believe tomorrow is Thanksgiving of 2015! 

The main reason why I haven't blogged is because I spent the first part of the year planning wedding. 




On Christmas 2014, the man of my dreams asked me to be his wife.  I was so elated!  He is the perfect partner; smart, handsome, patient, loving, kind....  Let's just say I am a lucky gal.

From that day, forward the wedding planning started.  We chose the wedding date of Fourth of July, 2015.  A date neither one of us would forget.

I thought I'd use this blog to show how I could do the impossible.  Have an affordable wedding in Brooklyn, NY.  Here are my tips on how we kept it affordable and fun.

1.  Have a small wedding.

We aimed at inviting only 50 people.  With fewer people we could chose a smaller venue and also have fewer people to host.

Keeping the list small was so hard because I am one of 5 and my husband is one of 4.  The first thing was to only include our children in the wedding which already included my 2 and his 4.  We have 10 nieces and nephews so by just having our kids, it allowed us to include more adult friends and family.

I used the free website http://www.ewedding.com/ prior to sending out invitations because I wanted to know who could make it since it was a popular weekend so that I could invite more people if some people could not attend.



2.  Wedding Ceremony location

My wedding ceremony was held at the beautiful Japanese Garden at Brooklyn Botanic Gardens.  This venue allowed was excellent.  Both my husband and I regularly went to the gardens as children and revered it greatly.

These were the parameters.

  • Only two ceremonies are permitted per day on Saturday and Sunday. 
  • The ceremony must be held between 9 and 10 a.m.
  • Fee: $450 for up to 50 people. Up to 10 additional guests may be permitted at a cost of $12 per person (60 persons maximum). The fee is nonrefundable.
  • Ceremonies are held rain or shine. No indoor facility is available.
  • Choice of Rose Garden, Osborne Garden, or Japanese Hill-and-Pond Garden, based upon availability.
These parameters helped to encourage us to keep to 50 people, 60 max.  It also made it so we would have a brunch reception which cut cost greatly.



http://www.bbg.org/visit/weddings_ceremony

New York City has a large amount of parks, gardens, farms, and zoos that offer affordable and memorable wedding options.

3.  Brunch Reception

My "froussin" (friend cousin) and matron of honor recommended a French restaurant Bacchus.  It was not too far from the wedding ceremony location.  After looking at other spots, I realized it was the perfect location.

Bacchus included:
                       3 courses prix fixe Brunch menu at $22.95 per person -   
                       Unlimited Mimosa and Belini at $6.00 per person per hour (minimum charge 3 hours)  

Everyone had a choice of salad and appetizer and chose from the following main course:

                    Black Angus hanger steak with home fries & mixed greens


                    Salmon Burger with avocado served with French fries and salad


                    Crab Cake Benedict served with home fries and Salad

 
The venue also decorated and made the menus for us.  They also included some of our decorations.  Meryl was absolutely amazing.

4.  Music
My friend recommended her DJ friend; DJ Fly Ty and for $400 I had wonderful music and a friendly and professional DJ.


5.  Wedding Build Up

The build up to the wedding was wonderful. I had a Bridal Shower thrown by my cousin/Matron of honor. 


I also was to two premarital shows in NY.

I saw The Bachelorette Show with my bestie.
I also saw Sex Tips for Straight Woman from a Gay Man with my sister.




Both show tickets were comp tickets from clubfreetime.com.  A $4.50 service fee per ticket was the only cost.

I've features this website in the past blog, "It's Showtime."

http://exposuremom.blogspot.com/2013/09/its-showtime.html

 

6. Bachelorette Party

My cousin also planned my bachelorette party in Florida. The details are on her blog:

http://www.villapompano.com/blog/2015/6/29/a-not-so-wild-weekend-in-florida.html

We vacationed at her vacation rental property and she used her miles to secure airfare.




7.  Wedding Cake!!!!!!!!!

My matron of honor has a dear friend Keli who makes some of the best desserts I've ever tasted in my life; and I have tasted many desserts.

I pride myself on my holiday chocolate chip cookies but her chocolate chip cookies make mine seem like chips ahoy.

She was my first choice for my wedding cake and she did not disappoint and her "framily" price was great.

If there is a baker in the family, that is a great way to keep costs down.










8.  Wedding Invitations








My cousin, who also happens to be my maid of honors mom, made my official wedding invitation. Celeste Morris handmade the paper for ever invitation.  It was an amazing gift!
 


My cousin Celeste also secured a free officiant for our wedding.

You got LOVE family!
 












9.  Free magazines and Event
To prepare and plan for the wedding, I attended 3 bridal expo's. It is a great way to get ideas for your wedding and even hire vendors. I went to each expo for free. I used a coupon code to offset the cost of two of the expo's. One had an original cost of $75!

One of my favorite events was hosted by target. It had snacks, which the kids love and champagne, which I loved. It allowed me to start a bridal registry and scan products for my registry at the event.
It also had demos of the uses of some products.


 The other that I enjoyed was the Wedding Salon. Tasting samples and a lot vendors.




Wedding Magazines.

I was able to subscribe for two free wedding magazines. One that I found on the about.com website when I searched for free wedding magazines. The other was from doing a registry with Sur La Table.



10.  Honeymoon

Another cousin offered an apartment in US Virgin Island, St Croix for my honeymoon.  What a splendid offer!

However, with all of the wedding planning my ideal honeymoon included sun, beach and all-inclusivity.

We used http://www.orbitz.com/.

I  found a great all-inclusive resort in Cozumel, Mexico.  It was a short enough flight so that we could maximize our visit.  The cost was low and we had a great time.  We stayed at El Cozumeleno.









Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Free Museums, Zoos, Gardens and Aquariums in NYC

I LOVE NYC!!!! 











Image result for i love nyc              There are so many things to do here.  So many shows, authentic ethnic restaurants, museums, parks. This blog will list some great museums and outings that are free!!!!


Free all of the Time:


American Folk Museum
folkartmuseum.org
Free admission. 
2 Lincoln Square, New York, NY
National Museum of the American Indian
www.nmai.si.edu/visit/newyork
Free admission. 
1 Bowling Green, NY, NY
 
Queens County Farm Farm
Image result for queens farm
http://www.queensfarm.org/
I love going here in the farm to partake in the fall activities.  Hay Rides, Corn Maze, pumpkins and treats are extra.
Free Admission  
73-50 Little Neck Pkwy, Queens, NY

SONY Wonder technology Lab
www.sonywondertechlab.com
Free admission. 
550 Madison Ave, NY, NY


Free by way of Suggested Donation:

Brooklyn Museum of Art
www.brooklynmuseum.org
Growing up in Prospect Heights I know this museum intimately.  The millions of dollars in renovations, access to transportation and great exhibits always draws me in.
Target First Fridays are also a great event.  Its the first Saturday of every month starting at 5pm.

Suggested donation. Free admission for ages 19 and under
200 Eastern Pkwy, Brooklyn, NY

The Cloister
www.metmuseum.org/visit/visit-the-cloisters
Admission by suggested donation. 
Fort Tryon Park, 99 Margaret Corbin D, NY, NY   
El Museo del Barrio
www.elmuseo.org 
General admission by suggested donation. Free every third Saturday of the month for Super Sabado. 
1230 Fifth Ave., NY, NY

Japan Society
http://www.japansociety.org/
Free admission on Fridays from 6pm to 9pm. 
333 E 47th St,NY, NY

Leffert Historic House Museum 
www.prospectpark.org/visit-the.../lefferts-historic-house 
Suggested donation.  
Prospect Park, Ocean Ave, Brooklyn, NY

Metropolitan Museum of Art
www.metmuseum.org
Suggested donation. 
1000 Fifth Ave, NY, NY

Queens Museum
www.queensmuseum.org 
This museum has an awesome model replica of NYC.
Suggested donation. Children under 12 free. 
Flushing Meadows–Corona Park
Socrates Sculpture Park
socratessculpturepark.org
Free admission. 
32-01 Vernon Blvd, Long Island City, NY


Free on Certain Days: 

Asia Society
www.asiasociety.org
Free admission on Fridays from 6pm to 9pm
725 Park Ave, NY, NY
Brooklyn Childrens Museum
As a Brooklyn girl I've loved this neighborhood museum.  It has gone through millions of dollars in renovations, it's lost some of its neighborhood appeal but it is still a great time for small children. 
Free admission Thursdays from 3pm to 5pm and every third Thursday from 3pm to 7pm.
145 Brooklyn Ave, Brooklyn, NY

Children's Museum of Art
Pay-what-you-wish on Thursdays from 4pm to 6pm.
103 Charlton St, NY, NY
 
Children's Museum of Manhattan
Free admission on the first Friday of every month from 5pm to 8pm. 
212 W 83rd St, NY, NY

Museum of Chinese in America
Free admission on the first Thursday of the month. 
215 Centre St, NY, NY
 
Museum at Eldridge Street
Free admission on Mondays. 
12 Eldridge St, NY, NY
 
MOMA, Museum of Modern Art
Free admission every Friday from 4pm to 8pm. 
11 W 53rd St., NY, NY
 
Museum of Moving Images
Free admission on Fridays from 4pm to 8pm. 
36-01 35th Ave., NY, NY
 
National September 11 Memorial and Museum
Free museum admission on Tuesdays from 5pm to 8pm. Memorial admission free. 
Albany St at Greenwich St, NY, NY 
 
 
New Museum of Contemporary Art
New Museum
Pay-what-you-wish on Thursdays from 7pm to 9pm.
235 Bowery, NY, NY  
 
New York Aquarium 
Pay-what-you-wish on Fridays starting at 3pm.
Surf Ave at 8th S, Coney Island, NY

New York Botanical Gardens
Free grounds admission all day on Wednesdays and on Saturdays from 9am to 10am. 
Bronx River Pkwy at Fordham Rd, Bronx, NY
 
New York Hall of Science
http://nysci.org/ 
Love this place.  It is fun and you learn a lot.  Activities are interactive.
Free admission on Fridays from 2pm to 5pm and Sundays from 10am to 11 am September through June.
47-01 111th St, Flushing, NY

New York Historical Society
Pay-as-you-wish on Fridays from 6pm to 8pm. 
170 Central Park West, NY, NY
 
Queens Botanical Gardens
Free admission on Wednesdays from 3pm to 6pm and Sundays from 4pm to 6pm. 
43-50 Main St,
The Rubin Museum of Art
rubinmuseum.org
Free admission on Fridays from 6pm to 10pm. 
150 W 17th St, NY, NY

Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum
Pay-what-you-wish on Saturdays from 5:45pm to 7:45pm. 
1071 Fifth Ave, NY, NY

Staten Island Museum
Free admission on Tuesdays from 12pm to 2pm. 
75 Stuyvesant Pl, Staten Island, NY
 
Studio Museum in Harlem
Free admission every Sunday.  
144 W 125th St., NY, NY
Water Front Museum and Showboat Barge
Free tours on Saturdays from 1pm to 5pm (year–round) and Thursdays from 4pm to 8pm (starting in spring).
290 Conover St, (at Pier 44) 
 
Wave Hill
Free admission on Tuesdays and Saturdays from 9am to 12pm.
W 249th St, Bronx, NY